2007-11-17

Why should someone commit to another thats incapable of commitment?

Why should someone commit their heart and soul to another thats incapable of commitment? It reveals the fact that they both display the lack of maturity, understanding of each other and foresight, not to mention cowardice to face and deal with reality and their true emotions. Thus both living in a dream world far away from reality, wasting precious time and creating havoc within themselves. Often these people realise what is happening, yet despite objections and advice from the wise, they still fail to decide to break away from the vertical spiral that leads no where but the far reaching implications caused by chronic depression, self disappointment and guilt.

The problem is rife in modern secular society, while officially religious leaders often refuse to admit the existence of as well address the consequences of such deficiency in education and teaching regarding such frownable occurances, it is often in their own "exemplary" actions which lead to the corrosion of morals, basic ethics and values in congregations they lead themselves. The underlying cause is greed, pride and arrogance on the part of incompetent and uncoachable leaders who simply exist occupy "space" and hinder the works of wise men who are attempting to address the problem, in order to boast their own superficial position and status.

Famous Author and Philosopher James Womack once said ““Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.” The inability of someone to commit thus would imply the futility of another to commit themselves to that someone. Thus all dreams, hopes, and plans for the future will shatter, just as a piece of ignition wire will ignite an explosive device, causing mayhem and destruction to one's emotional stability, financial wellbeing and even cause the loss of sanity in the foreseeable future.

“Commitment unlocks the doors of imagination, allows vision, and gives us the "right stuff" to turn our dreams into reality.”, indeed it is evident how commitment will release the furor to succeed achieve realistic goals ... however, it can only be achieved at the right time under mutual agreement and understanding.

The conclusion is.....

Why should someone commit to another thats incapable of commitment?
They shouldn't! Its a waste of time and energy; a foolish decision on their part which affects not only themselves; it is one which they will come to regret for as long as they possess the ability to remember the past and critically review their thoughts and actions. Half the world population is of the opposite gender, assuming one does not possess homosexual tendencies, there will be opportunities for someone more worthy of true love and mutual commitment.

Rant over.

Guilty as charged.

To do list:
Run the last 10% of the race to exit from that person's life permanently.