Why should someone commit to another thats incapable of commitment?

Why should someone commit their heart and soul to another thats incapable of commitment? It reveals the fact that they both display the lack of maturity, understanding of each other and foresight, not to mention cowardice to face and deal with reality and their true emotions. Thus both living in a dream world far away from reality, wasting precious time and creating havoc within themselves. Often these people realise what is happening, yet despite objections and advice from the wise, they still fail to decide to break away from the vertical spiral that leads no where but the far reaching implications caused by chronic depression, self disappointment and guilt.

The problem is rife in modern secular society, while officially religious leaders often refuse to admit the existence of as well address the consequences of such deficiency in education and teaching regarding such frownable occurances, it is often in their own "exemplary" actions which lead to the corrosion of morals, basic ethics and values in congregations they lead themselves. The underlying cause is greed, pride and arrogance on the part of incompetent and uncoachable leaders who simply exist occupy "space" and hinder the works of wise men who are attempting to address the problem, in order to boast their own superficial position and status.

Famous Author and Philosopher James Womack once said ““Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.” The inability of someone to commit thus would imply the futility of another to commit themselves to that someone. Thus all dreams, hopes, and plans for the future will shatter, just as a piece of ignition wire will ignite an explosive device, causing mayhem and destruction to one's emotional stability, financial wellbeing and even cause the loss of sanity in the foreseeable future.

“Commitment unlocks the doors of imagination, allows vision, and gives us the "right stuff" to turn our dreams into reality.”, indeed it is evident how commitment will release the furor to succeed achieve realistic goals ... however, it can only be achieved at the right time under mutual agreement and understanding.

The conclusion is.....

Why should someone commit to another thats incapable of commitment?
They shouldn't! Its a waste of time and energy; a foolish decision on their part which affects not only themselves; it is one which they will come to regret for as long as they possess the ability to remember the past and critically review their thoughts and actions. Half the world population is of the opposite gender, assuming one does not possess homosexual tendencies, there will be opportunities for someone more worthy of true love and mutual commitment.

Rant over.

Guilty as charged.

To do list:
Run the last 10% of the race to exit from that person's life permanently.

HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED

Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

Learn to be lonely

Child of the wilderness
Born into emptiness
Learn to be lonely
Learn to find your way in darkness
Who will be there for you,
comfort and care for you?
Learn to be lonely
Learn to be your one companion
Never dreamed out in the world
There are arms to hold you

You've always known
Your heart was on its own
So laugh in your loneliness
Child of the wilderness
Learn to be lonely
Learn how to love life that is lived alone
Learn to be lonely
life can be lived
life can be loved
Alone.

All I Ask Of You - Phantom Of The Opera

The following is the lyrics to one of the most romantic pieces in the phantom of the opera. :) ... All I ask of you.. is to love me


No more talk of darkness,
forget these wide-eyed fears;
I'm here, nothing can harm you,
my words will warm and calm you.
Let me be your freedom,
let daylight dry your tears;
I'm here, with you, beside you,
to guard you and to guide you.

Christine
Say you'll love me ev'ry waking moment;
turn my head with talk of summertime.
Say you need me with you now and always;
promise me that all you say is true,
that's all I ask of you.

Raoul
Let me be your shelter,
let me be your light;
you're safe, no one will find you,
your fears are far behind you.

Christine
All I want is freedom,
a world with no more night;
and you, always beside me,
to hold me and to hide me.

Raoul
Then say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime;
let me lead you from you solitude.
Say you need me with you, here beside you,
anywhere you go, let me go too,
that's all I ask of you.

Christine
Say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime.
Say the word and I will follow you.

Together
Share each day with me, each night, each morning.

Christine
Say you love me...

Raoul
You know I do.

Together
Love me, that's all I ask of you.

Anywhere you go let me go too

Love me...
that's all I ask of you.

Tribute to the Late Luciano Pavarotti

Luciano Pavarotti (October 12, 1935 -- September 6, 2007) was an Italian tenor and one of the most popular contemporary vocal performers in the world of opera and across multiple musical genres. Known for his televised concerts, media appearances, and as one of the Three Tenors, Pavarotti was also noted for his award-winning charity work for raising money on behalf of refugees and the Red Cross.

Pavarotti began his career uneventfully by performing in opera houses throughout Europe, but broke out after a performance with well-established soprano Joan Sutherland, who invited the young tenor to join her in touring internationally. By 1977, Pavarotti had become known worldwide, famed for the power and effortlessness of his upper register. His "high C" would become a trademark throughout his career.

Pavarotti was launched into popular culture after a performance of Nessun Dorma for the opening ceremony of the 1990 FIFA World Cup in Italy. The first of the famed Three Tenors concerts was held on the eve of the final match of the tournament in which Pavarotti performed together with fellow star tenors Plácido Domingo and José Carreras. Through these performances, Pavarotti brought hits previously confined to the opera world to a much wider audience; Pavarotti further spread his influence with appearances in advertisements and concerts with pop stars. Unlike many crossovers, Pavarotti always maintained his reputation in the opera world as supreme in his field.