2007-12-05

I Asked God...

I Asked God...

I asked God to take away my pride.
God said "No. It is not for me to take away,
but for you to give it up."

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said. "No. Her spirit is whole,
her body is only temporary."

I asked God to grant me patience.
God said "No. Patience is a byproduct of tribulations;
it isn't granted, it is earned."

I asked God to give me happiness.
God said "No. I give you blessings,
happiness is up to you."

I asked God to spare my pain.
God said "No. Sufferings draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me."

I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said "No. You must grow on your own,
but I will prune you to make you fruitful."

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, "No. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things."

I asked God to help me LOVE others,
as much as God loves me. God said....

" Ahhhhh............ Finally you have the idea!"

2007-11-17

Why should someone commit to another thats incapable of commitment?

Why should someone commit their heart and soul to another thats incapable of commitment? It reveals the fact that they both display the lack of maturity, understanding of each other and foresight, not to mention cowardice to face and deal with reality and their true emotions. Thus both living in a dream world far away from reality, wasting precious time and creating havoc within themselves. Often these people realise what is happening, yet despite objections and advice from the wise, they still fail to decide to break away from the vertical spiral that leads no where but the far reaching implications caused by chronic depression, self disappointment and guilt.

The problem is rife in modern secular society, while officially religious leaders often refuse to admit the existence of as well address the consequences of such deficiency in education and teaching regarding such frownable occurances, it is often in their own "exemplary" actions which lead to the corrosion of morals, basic ethics and values in congregations they lead themselves. The underlying cause is greed, pride and arrogance on the part of incompetent and uncoachable leaders who simply exist occupy "space" and hinder the works of wise men who are attempting to address the problem, in order to boast their own superficial position and status.

Famous Author and Philosopher James Womack once said ““Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.” The inability of someone to commit thus would imply the futility of another to commit themselves to that someone. Thus all dreams, hopes, and plans for the future will shatter, just as a piece of ignition wire will ignite an explosive device, causing mayhem and destruction to one's emotional stability, financial wellbeing and even cause the loss of sanity in the foreseeable future.

“Commitment unlocks the doors of imagination, allows vision, and gives us the "right stuff" to turn our dreams into reality.”, indeed it is evident how commitment will release the furor to succeed achieve realistic goals ... however, it can only be achieved at the right time under mutual agreement and understanding.

The conclusion is.....

Why should someone commit to another thats incapable of commitment?
They shouldn't! Its a waste of time and energy; a foolish decision on their part which affects not only themselves; it is one which they will come to regret for as long as they possess the ability to remember the past and critically review their thoughts and actions. Half the world population is of the opposite gender, assuming one does not possess homosexual tendencies, there will be opportunities for someone more worthy of true love and mutual commitment.

Rant over.

Guilty as charged.

To do list:
Run the last 10% of the race to exit from that person's life permanently.

2007-11-13

HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED

Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

2007-11-04

Learn to be lonely



Child of the wilderness
Born into emptiness
Learn to be lonely
Learn to find your way in darkness
Who will be there for you,
comfort and care for you?
Learn to be lonely
Learn to be your one companion
Never dreamed out in the world
There are arms to hold you

You've always known
Your heart was on its own
So laugh in your loneliness
Child of the wilderness
Learn to be lonely
Learn how to love life that is lived alone
Learn to be lonely
life can be lived
life can be loved
Alone.

All I Ask Of You - Phantom Of The Opera

The following is the lyrics to one of the most romantic pieces in the phantom of the opera. :) ... All I ask of you.. is to love me


No more talk of darkness,
forget these wide-eyed fears;
I'm here, nothing can harm you,
my words will warm and calm you.
Let me be your freedom,
let daylight dry your tears;
I'm here, with you, beside you,
to guard you and to guide you.

Christine
Say you'll love me ev'ry waking moment;
turn my head with talk of summertime.
Say you need me with you now and always;
promise me that all you say is true,
that's all I ask of you.

Raoul
Let me be your shelter,
let me be your light;
you're safe, no one will find you,
your fears are far behind you.

Christine
All I want is freedom,
a world with no more night;
and you, always beside me,
to hold me and to hide me.

Raoul
Then say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime;
let me lead you from you solitude.
Say you need me with you, here beside you,
anywhere you go, let me go too,
that's all I ask of you.

Christine
Say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime.
Say the word and I will follow you.

Together
Share each day with me, each night, each morning.

Christine
Say you love me...

Raoul
You know I do.

Together
Love me, that's all I ask of you.

Anywhere you go let me go too

Love me...
that's all I ask of you.

2007-11-02

Tribute to the Late Luciano Pavarotti



Luciano Pavarotti (October 12, 1935 -- September 6, 2007) was an Italian tenor and one of the most popular contemporary vocal performers in the world of opera and across multiple musical genres. Known for his televised concerts, media appearances, and as one of the Three Tenors, Pavarotti was also noted for his award-winning charity work for raising money on behalf of refugees and the Red Cross.

Pavarotti began his career uneventfully by performing in opera houses throughout Europe, but broke out after a performance with well-established soprano Joan Sutherland, who invited the young tenor to join her in touring internationally. By 1977, Pavarotti had become known worldwide, famed for the power and effortlessness of his upper register. His "high C" would become a trademark throughout his career.

Pavarotti was launched into popular culture after a performance of Nessun Dorma for the opening ceremony of the 1990 FIFA World Cup in Italy. The first of the famed Three Tenors concerts was held on the eve of the final match of the tournament in which Pavarotti performed together with fellow star tenors Plácido Domingo and José Carreras. Through these performances, Pavarotti brought hits previously confined to the opera world to a much wider audience; Pavarotti further spread his influence with appearances in advertisements and concerts with pop stars. Unlike many crossovers, Pavarotti always maintained his reputation in the opera world as supreme in his field.

2007-10-26

Keywords that led to people visiting my blog

This is very interesting.. people all the way from china (www.google.cn) visited my blog by searching the keywords ...
- when a women didnt love you


** hehe.. yeah.. welcome!! to all those visiting from:
- San Antonio, Texas, USA
- Ho Chi Ming City, Vietnam
- Bangkok, Thailand
- Beijing, China
- Hong Kong, China
- Brisbane, Australia
- and... Aucklanders... New Zealand.

2007-10-25

Stagecoach refuses to apologise for the death of a chinese man

Oct 24, 2007 7:03 PM

The Stagecoach bus company has made a big payout to the family of a man who died after apparently being hit by one of its buses, but it has not apologised. Rongfa Jiang's family now plans to take legal action against the bus company, as they question the punishment given to the driver.

Jiang died from severe head injuries after being allegedly swiped from the footpath by a bus.

The driver was sentenced to 40 hours of community service for failing to stop and ascertain injury.

Hao Jiang, the victim's son says people who are cruel to animals in New Zealand get more punishment than the bus driver.

"It appears that in New Zealand the life of a China man is worth less than a dog," he says.

The family's lawyer, Frank Deliu, says the family all along has asked for a more through investigation.

"There were supposedly eight other witnesses on the bus that were never found. So police have said all along they don't have the key witness to pinpoint to show the driver knew what had happened."

On Wednesday morning, the head of Stagecoach arrived with a substantial cheque, enough to cover the family's living costs for most of this year.

But there has been no apology from Stagecoach and there will not be. While the company says it has enormous sympathy for the Jiang family, it says the bus driver involved had never been found accountable for the death by police or by the courts.

That's not good enough for Rongfa Jiang's widow who wants her lawyers to make a diplomatic protest to the Chinese government.

"She now feels justice hasn't been done, so she's going back to her country to see what other support she can get," says Deliu.

"If this was simply an unavoidable accident, I could accept my fate. But this was much more than that. The pain of the death of my father is even greater because no-one in New Zealand cares enough," says Hao Jiang.

Legal action is also planned against Stagecoach. The driver himself is still working for the company, but not driving buses.

2007-10-24

Letting go, because you love them

Sometimes love is a test of whether we’d want the pleasure of our loved ones company, vs. we’d want for them whats important for them for their happiness. At this test of love, most choose what they’d want their lover do . I consider this a sign that they haven’t [yet] crossed over into a bond where they accept their lover as themselves, instead they still consider themselves as themselves and their lover as their lover!

Care for a loved one is in granting them their freedom to live their life according to what matters them the most, not according to what you think should:
"Love is in letting go for their happiness/growth/safety, not in our need for their companionship/agreement/compliance."

Here’s a story to illustrate this point:

    Long long ago, there lived a wise, noble and fair man. People of that region considered he could solve any problem and often sought his advice. This day was unique, because instead of his advice they awaited his judgement.

    Two women were brought to him who had a dispute over one baby. Each claimed the baby was theirs. At that time, there was no means to find out whose baby it was, as the government didn’t keep track of the births, their parents or had a DNA test. Children would grow up to recognize their parents, but in this case the baby was too small to even do that.

    The wiseman thought for a while and said to the two women, “Let us find out whose baby it is by having a match. Each of you two hold one side each of the baby, and let there be a tug of war to pull the baby towards yourself. The one who wins would have proved their maternal love!”

    So the tug-of-war began, while the people watched to know the result. The baby wailed loudly. Within a matter of moments one of the women let go of her side. Everyone knew the winner was clearly the one who now had the baby.

    However, the wiseman ordered the woman who had won this tug-of-war competition to hand over the baby to its real mother. He continued, “The real mother let the baby go because she could bear the pain, suffering and unhappiness of one she loved. You didn’t feel the same way because you wanted the baby more than the baby’s happiness or safety itself – had you been the mother you’d have just know this.”

    The people were once again thankful to the wiseman, for justice had prevailed.

    Moral: The fact that you let go doesn’t say anything about how much you love someone. Whether it was for their benefit or for yours, instead, tells how much you love them!
Similarily, a love for humanity is demonstrated not by how you make them follow you or your revered [imaginary] leader/ideals; it is demonstrated by how you let them be by respecting their “individual freedom”. "Live and let live" is a motto that is derived from giving others their space because you care for their will and welfare. Had you wanted yours, the motto would’ve instead just been “Just let me live [no matter what I do]”. Unfortunately, a majority of us care only as far as our skin feels – to be able to live irrespective of whether others have what they themselves have, or not.

A Father’s Prayer

Prayer By: General Douglas MacArthur (1880-1964) who was United states' last five-star general. His fierce command of many campaigns in WWI, WWII, and Korea distinguished him as a true patriot. But MacArthur was also a man of prayer. "A Father's Prayer," written by the general during the early days of the desperate campaigns in the Far East in WWII; is a model for every father today.


麥克阿瑟元帥為儿子的祈禱

主啊! 求你塑造我的儿子,使他夠堅強到能認識自己的軟弱;夠勇敢到能面對懼怕;在誠實的失敗中,毫不气餒;在胜利中,仍保持謙遜溫和。

懇求塑造我的儿子,不致空有幻想而缺乏行動,引導他認識你,同時又知道認識自己乃是真知識的基石。我祈禱,愿你引導他,不求安逸,舒适,相反的,經過壓力艱難和挑戰,學習在風暴中挺身站立,學會怜恤那些在重壓之下失敗的人。

求你塑造我的儿子,心地清洁,目標遠大;使他在指揮別人之前,先懂得駕馭自己;永不忘記過去的教訓,又能伸展人未來的理想。當他擁有以上的一切,我還要祈求,賜他足夠的幽默感,使他能認真嚴肅,却不致過份苛求自己。懇求賜他謙卑,使他永遠牢記,真偉大中的平凡,真智慧中的開明,真勇力中的溫柔。

如此,我這做父親的,才敢低聲說:“我沒有虛度此生”。


麥克阿瑟元帥


A Father’s Prayer

Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory. Build me a son whose wishbone will not be where his backbone should be; a son who will know Thee and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.

Lead him I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail. Build me a son whose heart will be clear, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men; one who will learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep; one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of true greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, the meekness of true strength.

Then, I, his father, will dare to whisper, have not lived in vain.

Amen.

2007-10-22

婚前男人的十大经典谎言

  谎言一:我未婚。


  谎言二:你有一双世上最美的眼睛。


  谎言三:从来没有人带给我这种感觉。


  谎言四:我不会做出任何伤害你的事。


  谎言五:你是我的唯一。


  谎言六:我永远不会骗你的。


  谎言七:自从我们分手后我一直是一个人过日子。


  谎言八:自从我跟她分手后,我就没有再见过她了。


  谎言九:只要你喜欢,多少钱都不在乎。


  谎言十:我爱你(这是令女人最招架不住的一句)!

2007-10-09

CNN: Heart Disease induced by bad relationships

Study: Bad relationships could damage heart

  • Story Highlights
  • Study: Bad personal relationships can raise heart disease risk
  • Increased stress is probably the key factor
  • Previous studies linked health problems with being single
  • Current research focused more on quality of important relationships

CHICAGO, Illinois (AP) -- A lousy marriage might literally make you sick.

Marital strife and other bad personal relationships can raise your risk for heart disease, researchers reported Monday.

What it likely boils down to is stress -- a well-known contributor to health problems, as well as a potential byproduct of troubled relationships, the scientists said.

In a study of 9,011 British civil servants, most of them married, those with the worst close relationships were 34 percent more likely to have heart attacks or other heart trouble during 12 years of follow-up than those with good relationships. That included partners, close relatives and friends.

The study, in Monday's Archives of Internal Medicine, follows previous research that has linked health problems with being single and having few close relationships. In the new study, researchers focused more on the quality of marriage and other important relationships.

"What we add here is that, 'OK, being married is in general good, but be careful about the kind of person you have married.' The quality of the relationship matters," said lead author Roberto De Vogli, a researcher with University College in London.

De Vogli said his research team is doing tests to see whether study participants with bad relationships have any biological evidence of stress that could contribute to heart disease. That includes inflammation and elevated levels of stress hormones.

Another recent study also looked at quality of relationships but had different results. There was no association between marital woes in general and risks for heart disease or early death. But it did find, over a 10-year follow-up, that women who keep silent during marital arguments had an increased risk of dying compared with wives who expressed their feelings during fights. What appeared to matter more for men was just being married; married men were less likely to die during the follow-up than single men.

That study, of nearly 4,000 men and women, was published online in July in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine.

In De Vogli's study, men and women with bad relationships faced equal risks. Volunteers filled out questionnaires asking them to rate the person to whom they felt closest on several measures. These included questions about to what extent does that person "give you worries, problems and stress?"

They also were asked about whether they felt they could confide in that person, or whether talking with that person made them feel worse.

Over the following 12 years, 589 participants had heart attacks or other heart problems. Those with the highest negative scores on the questionnaire had the highest risks, even taking into account other factors related to heart disease such as obesity, high blood pressure and smoking.

James Coyne, a University of Pennsylvania psychology professor who also has examined the health impact of social relationships, said De Vogli's results "make intuitive sense." But he said the study found only a weak association that doesn't prove bad relationships can cause heart disease.

"It is still not clear what to recommend," Coyne said.

"Do we tell people who have negative relationships to get therapy? They may have other reasons to do so, but I see no basis for them doing so only to avoid a heart attack," Coyne said.

Ending a bad marriage is not necessarily the answer either, he said, given evidence that being unmarried also could be a risk.

Copyright 2007 The Associated Press. All rights reserved.This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed.

2007-09-27

Low phone credit? lol.. Go for Morse Code!

Morse Code is international language of signaling... used in WWII for communication, while encrypted, decodes on both allied and axis sides are employed to decode the messages.
heres the thing, if you're running low on phone credit.. get out your FM transmitter.. and start transmitting.. haha.. provided the other guy is also listening and knows morse code.. hmm.. ok.. not very likely.. but.. cost effective.. the only thing would be battery life.. and the chance of other people intercepting your calls in the radio spectrum.. well.. keep things simple and encrypted. :) Who wanna join me a learn morse code, and save some mega bucks in texting/phone call costs.. haha.. lets beat vodafone and telecom

2007-09-22

男人远没有你想象中坚强

天生的使命与责任造就了男人的坚强,长久积压的压力与长久憋屈的泪水造就了男人内心深处的无比脆弱,只是太多的女人知道前者却忽略了后者。男人有痛也得忍着,有泪也得憋在心里,他知道自己必须坚强,他总会说些:没事、这有啥、撑得住、的大话,其实男人有时真的很脆弱,他太需要安慰,也太容易感动,男人很多时候所要的不过只是一份关怀、是一声问候、一种理解,女人们,男人对你要求的并不多,男人太容易满足为了自己所爱的人,男人总是要表现的坚强;为了自己心中的理想,男人总是要漂泊流浪。而现实中男人却很容易失落、受伤,总是想逃避躲藏在黑暗的角落里为自己孤独的添着伤口...

2007-09-12

cherish the treasure ... of you...

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I cherish the treasure
The treasure of you
Lifelong companion
I give myself to you
God has enabled me
To walk with you faithfully
And cherish the treasure
The treasure of you

As I obey the Spirit's voice
And seek to do His will
I then can see the wisdom of His plan
For as He works His will in me
I then can love you selflessly
And by His grace, can pledge my love to you

This sacred vow I make to you
Does not contain an "if"
Though I'm aware that trials lie ahead
I will love you and pray with you
And through it all, I will stay with you
Our home will be a refuge of unconditional love

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2007-09-07

2007-09-04

Windows 2000 Source Code - Finally leaked! :)

/* Source Code Windows 2000 */

#include "win31.h"
#include "win95.h"
#include "win98.h"
#include "workst~1.h"
#include "evenmore.h"
#include " oldstuff.h"
#include "billrulz.h"
#include "monopoly.h"
#include "backdoor.h"
#define INSTALL = HARD

char make_prog_look_big(16000000);
void main()
{
while(!CRASHED)
{
display_copyright_message();
display_bill_rules_message();
do_nothing_loop();

if (first_time_installation)
{
make_100_megabyte_swapfile();
do_nothing_loop();
totally_screw_up_HPFS_file_system();
search_and_destroy_the_rest_of-OS2();
make_futile_attempt_to_damage_Linux();
disable_Netscape();
disable_RealPlayer();
disable_Lotus_Products();
hang_system();
} //if
write_something(anything);
display_copyright_message();
do_nothing_loop();
do_some_stuff();

if (still_not_crashed)
{
display_copyright_message();
do_nothing_loop();
basically_run_windows_31();
do_nothing_loop();
} // if
} //while

if (detect_cache())
disable_cache();

if (fast_cpu())
{
set_wait_states(lots);
set_mouse(speed,very_slow);
set_mouse(action,jumpy);
set_mouse(reaction,sometimes);
} //if

/* printf("Welcome to Windows 3.1"); */
/* printf("Welcome to Windows 3.11"); */
/* printf("Welcome to Windows 95"); */
/* printf("Welcome to Windows NT 3.0"); */
/* printf("Welcome to Windows 98"); */
/* printf("Welcome to Windows NT 4.0"); */
printf("Welcome to Windows 2000");

if (system_ok())
crash(to_dos_prompt)
else
system_memory = open("a:\swp0001.swp",O_CREATE);

while(something)
{
sleep(5);
get_user_input();
sleep(5);
act_on_user_input();
sleep(5);
} // while
create_general_protection_fault();

} // main

2007-09-03

Love comes in all sizes....


 
 
Your Friends will support you....
 
 
And respect your creativity for thinking outside the box....
 
 
They'll be there when you need a shoulder to lean on....
 
 
Or a great big hug....
 
 
A true friend takes interest in understanding what you're all about....
 
 
They see beyond the black and white to discover your true colors....
 
 
And accept you just the way you are...
Even when you just wake up in the morning?.
 
 
So make your own kind of music....
 
 
Follow your heart wherever it takes you....
 
 
And when someone reaches out to you, Don't be afraid to love them back....
 
 
They may just be a friend for life....
 
 
Practice patience and tolerance.....
 
 
 
 
 
Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave....
And impossible to forget!

Share this will all your unforgettable friends today....

Gmail Video: A behind the scenes look.. haha!



2007-08-29

2007-08-28

Hungry yet?

Mmm... Sarawak's signature dish.. Kolo mee :)

Kenny Sia's photo of Kolo mee :D

2007-08-10

Police dog dies during humanhunt :(

Friday, 10 August 2007

A wanted man drowned a police dog with his bare hands during a pursuit through bush in the Bay of Plenty.
Police have refused to comment on how 3-year-old Enzo was killed, but it is understood the fugitive held him under water until he died.
Enzo's distraught handler, Constable Kayne Cording, carried him several hundred metres to the nearest vehicle access after he found him dead.
An autopsy is to be conducted today.
Enzo was based in Tauranga and had been a police dog for just 18 months, but had already impressed police chiefs with his skill.
He is the 22nd police dog to be killed on duty in the past 34 years, and his death comes two weeks after another Bay of Plenty police dog, Cane, was stabbed.
Cane, a 7-year-old german shepherd based in Rotorua, has since been retired.
Enzo was killed while pursuing a 20-year-old man wanted for a family violence offence.
The dog's death sparked a major search for the suspect involving two helicopters and more than 30 police.

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It lasted five hours and the fugitive was arrested at 5pm.
At least five police cars remained at the scene half an hour later.
Two police dog handlers, only one with a dog, were also there.
Depending on the results of the autopsy, the arrested man could be charged with killing a police dog, which carries a maximum penalty of two years in prison.
Western Bay of Plenty area commander Inspector Mike Clement said Enzo's death was a huge blow to Tauranga police.
"Naturally his handler, family and work colleagues are devastated," Mr Clement said.
"They [police dogs] are part of the police family."
Tauranga has four dog handlers, but now, without Enzo, only three police dogs.
The Rotorua dog unit has six police dogs, including one drug dog.
Enzo and Mr Cording had been called to pursue the suspect after officers went to a ruralproperty, 20km southwest of Tauranga, at 9.30am in a bid to locate the man.
The man ran off as police arrived at the property, which is on State Highway 29 over the Kaimai Ranges, prompting a call to Enzo and his handler to assist.
The dog tracked the suspect across rural land for 5-6km, at times following his scent through dense bush, until eventually Mr Cording caught sight of the fugitive.
Mr Clement said the man was issued with a standard challenge to stop, but continued fleeing, pursued by Enzo.
"A short time later the handler located his dog dead," Mr Clement said.
Asked if Enzo was stabbed, shot or drowned, Mr Clement said he would not comment until the post-mortem examination was carried out, but he did say the suspect was thought to be unarmed.
Mr Clement said the helicopters and police officers were immediately mobilised after Enzo was founddead.
He said the scale of the search illustrated "the passion and value we place in police dogs".
Mr Clement said Enzo was an "outstanding" police dog.
Enzo featured in the Bay of Plenty Times last month in a story about an armed offenders squad exercise.
It reported: "Twice police dog Enzo was set upon by a gun-wielding man after he [the man] refused to surrender."

2007-08-06

lovely DD kk's own "lovely love kaya"

Kaya - coconut egg jam

This recipe is for all the lovely cats from mao city in Malaysia.

This is a really good kaya (egg jam) that is without any

coloring or artificial stuff that those sold in jars. It is also very

simple but requires lotsa skill. Even I have trouble with it. I plan to

perfect it and pass it on to my generations to come :)

INGREDIENTS


coconut milk from 2 coconuts (Ayam brand works well)

400 g sugar

10 eggs

PROCEDURE:

It must be pure and undiluted. If you get the canned or tetrapak stuff from

the supermarket (Ayam Brand for canned or Kara for the pak) make sure you

filter the milk. I usually find lots of coconut bits in these supermarket

packaged ones. Best to filter it through a fine colander or a fine mesh

sieve. If you have bought the shredded coconut bits and have to squeeze the

milk out, there is a good way to do this. Fill those big coffee bags that

are used by the kopi-tiams with the shredded coconut. Squeeze it with all

your might and make sure you squeeze it till it is dry. DO NOT DILUTE! and

do not waste a single drop. Torture the bag like you are killing someone

you hate :)

Now that the coconut milk part is over, it is time to make the kaya.

Using an electric beater, beat the eggs at medium speed slightly. Just

enough the break the yolks.

Add all the sugar and beat at full speed. Mix thoroughly. Stop the beating,

add the coconut milk and beat full speed to mix thoroughly. When the sugar

has finally dissolved. Pour to a clean steel pot and cook it over a slow

fire with CONSTANT STIRRING! Whatever it is there is no shortcut. If you

have to stand there stirring for an hour, you have to. Do not use ceramic

pots as they will hold the heat for too long and may give rise to burns.


The kaya will change color from the eggy-white (from the eggs and coconut

milk) to a redish-brown like gravy. This is due to the caramels forming

from the sugar. It will also thicken. Keep stirring the bottom to prevent

the bottom from burning. Burns spoil the kaya taste. If possible, lower the

flame even more. Once when the eggy-white color is completely replaced by

the redish-brown color, stop and leave aside to cool. At this time, you

have to protect the kaya from naughty kittens coming in to lick it.


After it has cooled, you can bottle it in jars and refrigerate. This stuff

can last for 3 days in room temperature, that is before the ants get to it.


NOTES:

I had better success using freshly squeezed coconut milk than the canned or

packed ones.


Do not adulterate this recipe by adding additional flavorings. It just

spoils it. Pandan leaves don't cut well with it and same with vanilla

essence. It has to be enjoyed as is.


How to eat it? Only on bread. This is not exactly a health food. It has

lots of cholesterol and calories. I suggest eliminating eggs if you plan to

eat it for breakfast. If you want a cholesterol fest, try spreading it on

hot french toast that is fried in butter. A taste that is so good it could

kill :)


Heating by direct heat is usually too hot. Unless you have a burner that

has a very low flame setting. What is is better as I have found out is

to use a double boiler. You still need to stir it but the chances of

burning kaya are eliminated.

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Anyway, here goes for the improvements. I present to you speedy kaya! All ingredients and their amounts are the same.

Mix the sugar and coconut milk together in a microwavable bowl. A plastic one will do just fine. Mix with a wire whisk and set aside. Don't worry if the sugar has dissolved or not.

Break eggs into a 1-litre beaker. Beat the eggs until they are well mixed. Make sure there are no bits of egg white present. The chalaza (stringy thing) that holds the yolk in place is the hardest to get rid of. Try not to create much foam. Just mix the eggs. Set aside.

Return back to the coconut milk and sugar mixture. Mix with a wire whisk briefly and pop it into the microwave oven. Zap it for 1 min on high. Remove and stir with the wire whisk. Pop it back in and repeat the zapping with the same power setting and time. Do this repeatedly until the sugar has completely dissolved. By now the mixture is hot but not boiling.

While the mixture is hot, stir it with the wire whisk and at the same time stream the eggs. Yes, pour the eggs in a slow steady stream. The mixture will thicken slightly. Once finished, pop the mixture into the microwave oven. Zap on high for 30 seconds. Remove and stir. Repeat until the kaya has a off green-brown color and the mixture traces. By traces, I mean that the whatever utensil you use to stir forms impressions.

There you have it speed kaya. No burns and faster.

OK, crucial factors in kaya making. Sugar in not the important one. Its the eggs and coconut milk. Both have to be fresh for maximum flavor. For some strange reason it is called egg jam. Technically, it is coconut curd. Because lemon curd is made almost the same way and both need eggs to be curdled. The coconut determines the fragrance and taste of the kaya mainly just as lemons do for lemon curd.

I made the above with an 800W microwave. I did some other batches where I lowered the power and this yielded smoother kaya. This is crucial when after you have added the eggs. You just have to repeat the microwaving more often and this take a longer time.

2007-08-05

Congratulations to DD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Dear DD!!!!!!!
Congratulations~~!!! muahahahhaa... Mavis still remembers you! :):)

YAY!!

Love from... Yoshi™

2007-08-02

The funniest and craziest thing I witnessed today...

As I was looking at youtube today, I stumbled across a video that made me laugh out loud so loud that I felt like saying "LOL" out loud! Its a video produced by Norwegian Broadcasting Provider NRK. Its a parody of the modern "Helpdesk" phenomenon.. the subject of help in this video skit.. is the new invention in the middle ages - the Book.

The Book caused much mayhem and problems for middle age tech support as do our modern day counterparts... hahaha!! You'll have to be there to understand how I feel that time..

and my dear people, let me tell you.. the producer of this video might not be familiar to some of you... a producer at NRK --- Rune Gokstad!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL


2007-08-01

Ten Reasons To Throw Away Your Cellphone

Ten Reasons To Throw Away Your Cellphone

1b2252preview It makes your life more complicated
A phone is just another thing that checks email, holds information and schedules events, and which has to be carefully kept in sync with all the other crud in your life that checks email, holds information and schedules events. The difference? This one likely has a 240 pixel-wide screen and a shabby interface spawned from the hellish loins of Windows CE.

It's horribly expensive
Total Cost of Ownership. Apply that idea to everything, not just cars and mortgages. The fact is that most cellphones will cost you thousands over the life of the contract. Short of paying-as-you-go with a Wal-Mart crapdybar, you're in it for a good $1,000, and about $2,000 or so with a smartphone.

It enslaves you to a one-sided contract
This is the magic that allows the previous item to happen, but is sufficiently vile to warrant an entry of its own. Everyone is at it, but the most iconic example of how times have changed is AT&T: Ma Bell has reglued itself together with almost Marxian inevitability, but now has the advantage of having countless customers under astonishingly abusive contract terms. Take that, deregulation.

It makes you perpetually available
If it's on, they can get you. If it's off, they wonder why they can't get you. It's a lose-lose situation for your Zen.

It is boring
The hype tsunami surrounding Apple's iPhone reveals that even something minimally inventive can completely wire public interest in what is otherwise a completely hidebound and risk-averse industry. Are we in the future yet?

It must constantly be recharged
Unless you want to hoik around a brick, the chances are you're recharging it daily. Screw fuel-cells: with WiFi, BlueTooth, WWAN and whatever else, we need AAA-size disposable fission reactors to keep these buggers awake.

It knows where you are
GPS is in every box, but you can't use it for much. The government loves to watch them without warrants or probable cause: if it's in your pocket, you are Robocop and The Man is Dick Jones.

It encourages stupid people to become a public menace
Forget about whether talking on cellphones while driving should be illegal: the fact remains that it is stupid. I know that you are perfectly capable of the mental gymnastics required for all this — you are a hypercephalic Gadget Lab reader — but it's best that you stop now, so as not to encourage lesser minds to attempt similar feats. Some are now being caught texting while driving. Just pull the car over, for heaven's sake!

Ubiquitous pleather accessory shops
Mallbound Cellphone crap shacks are an offense to nature. On the bright side, they support the whitewashed pegboard industry.

It turns you into a public annoyance
Hell is other people's ringtones.

2007-07-28

暧昧是糖,甜到忧伤

但凡说这句话的人,必定是尝过了那暧昧的糖,由味蕾的甜转化为心头的伤的人。

据说除了爱情和友情,还有一种感情。

它总是将你的心搔地蠢蠢欲动,想更上一层楼,却又怕登高畏寒,失足成恨。

它让你装作洒脱,说想忘记,说无所谓,却又无论如何舍不得放手。

它是一种糖,甜了自己,则伤了别人;甜了别人,则会伤了自己。

它是一个借口,有了它,可以逃避背叛的罪恶感。

它绝对的光明磊落,但也绝对的潜藏暗涌。

它是暧昧。



暧昧是糖,甜到忧伤。

听过一句话说,如果爱情像东坡肘子,暧昧便似鲍汁鹅掌,后者比前者更有回味。

暧昧是一种距离,有一些人,无论相隔地多么近,哪怕两人相互重叠,却还是只能擦肩而过,永远无法相互厮守,得不到,但也失不去,却也刻骨铭心。

暧昧就睡在你的隔壁,却永远不会穿透墙壁,不会逃离那边熟睡的人,而投奔向你,但是,隔着墙,它却给你带来隐隐约约藕断丝连的甜意。

暧昧是虚构,无法成实,你不说,别人未必知道,但是它酿造的甜蜜就在空气里流动,慢慢地液化、凝固,残留的是叫做忧伤的晶体。

有人告诉我:人是一种极没有出息的可怜又可恨的小动物!再华美的文字,再动人的句子,都敌不过双唇接触的一刹那;再崇高的道德,再重要的原则,都会在灵与肉的交融中烟消云散,土崩瓦解。可是,细想起来这也未必就是没有出息,也许这正说明了真爱的攻无不克,坚无不摧吧。

可是暧昧不是爱情,它是躲在爱情的阴影里不能见光的东西。如果说“爱如鲜血流千年”,那么千年来流出鲜血的是暧昧,委屈成全的是爱情。



暧昧是糖,甜到忧伤。

我们都是陈列在掌柜上,包装精致,不可一世的甜蜜糖果;你放荡不羁,剥开它尝到了甜,就注定有忧伤在角落里等待着。

我们都是走在空空街道上的迷路的孩子,向左还是向右;你平淡不惊地执起它的手,带领它走过温暖的这一站,可是在寒冷的下一站,你注定离去。

我们都是被天堂遗失的天使,拼命扇动翅膀寻找天堂的方向;你伸开双臂保护它,狂野而又寂寞地飞地很高很高,摔下来时,注定支离破碎,尸骨无存。



暧昧是糖,甜到忧伤。

有人说,鱼的记忆只有7秒,7秒后它不会再记得以前的事,我想说,人的记忆是一辈子,你以为忘掉的事情,其实永远记得。但是,无论是甜蜜还是忧伤,无论是温暖还是疼痛,无论是爱还是恨,都要忘记。

因为,人的记忆是一辈子的事,你以为记得的事情,其实也会忘记。

暧昧是糖,甜到忧伤。

2007-07-27

殘廢



吳克群 - 殘廢

愛裡行動不便 追不上你的美
 腳步再快跟不上你的嘴
 分開我騙了誰 想擦掉你的臉
 擦不掉痛卻更明顯
 你說你要的世界 在很遠 我不了解
 分手就分手別把 話說得太美

我像個殘廢 飛不出你的世界
 借不到一點安慰 為什麼你拼命後退
 退到了邊界 結果我沒了知覺
 就連痛都嫌浪費
 在愛裡殘廢 非弄得傷痕累累
 累到我無力再追 最怕你突然要挽回
 回到了原點 原點卻又像終點
 然後 多痛 一遍

A true kiwi bloke ...

It's the final of the rugby world Cup, and a man makes his way to his
seat right at centre of the field.

He sits down, noticing that the seat next to him is empty. He leans
over and asks his neighbor if someone will be sitting there. "No,"
says the neighbor. "The seat is empty."

"This is incredible", said the man. "Who in their right mind would have
a seat like this for final game of the World Cup and not use it?" The
neighbour says "Well, actually, the seat belongs to me.

I was supposed to come with my wife, but she passed away. This is the
first World Cup we haven't been to together since we got married in
1967."

"Oh ... I'm sorry to hear that. That's terrible. But couldn't you find
someone else,
a friend or relative, or even a neighbor to take the seat?"

The man shakes his head "No, they're all at the funeral."

2007-07-26

OMG... The Whole Internet Crashed All online data lost!

When you're lonely, whom do you think of?

當你孤單你會想起誰, I have my answer. :)

你的心情總在飛,
什麼事都要去追,
想抓住一點安慰,
你總是喜歡在人群中徘徊
你最害怕孤單的滋味
你的心那麼脆,
一碰就會碎,
經不起一點風吹
你的身邊總是要許多人陪,
你最害怕每天的天黑,
但是天總會黑,
人總要離別,
誰也不能永遠陪誰,
而孤單的滋味,
誰都要面對,
不只是你我會感覺到疲憊.
當你孤單你會想起誰
你想不想找個人來陪
你的快樂傷悲,
只有我能體會,
讓我再陪你走一回

2007-07-25

Tragic Day in the life of a dog :-(

Police dog stabbed several times after pursuit of stolen car
Wed, 25 Jul 2007 08:23a.m.




Cane the police dog. Image courtesy of Daily Post
Cane the police dog. Image courtesy of Daily Post
A police dog has been stabbed several times after an incident near Rotorua overnight that started with a stolen car chase.
Police say the dog, Cane, is expected to live, but needs treatment for at least three or four stab wounds.
Inspector Gary Hill says the attack on the dog followed a car being pursued by police into a forest at Murupara, south east of Rotorua.
The car was abandoned and the six occupants fled.
Police gave chase on foot and Cane was attacked with a knife after a short scuffle - the dog's handler Constable Jason Owen was wearing body armour and was not injured.

Two of the men were taken into custody but the other four got away.

2007-07-22

You're Spoilt!

If you read Harry Potter at all... lol..
Yeah, thats right. I'm that mean!

Voldemort kills Burbage on pg. 12
A Death Eater kills Hedwig on pg. 56
Mad-Eye is confirmed dead on pg. 78
Scrimgeour is confirmed dead on pg. 159
Wormtail's silver hand kills him on pg. 471
Dobby dies on pg. 476

:-P.. thank me. I saved you $30 dollars and 3 hours of cueing to get that stupid overhyped new book. haha.

2007-07-15

暧昧不等于爱情

你们认识很久,他天天朝九晚五嘘寒问暖的电话比你的钟表还要准时,你满心欢喜你开始心怀期待,就连做梦都会笑出来,可是他就是什么也不说,你对自己说等等再等等,直到有一天你看到他身边有了另一个身影,你震惊"不是...这是....我是.....?"

在朋友眼里你们很登对,每次聚会他做你的护花使者责无旁贷,你也发现自己对他有了些些的依赖,他总是不经意的拍拍你的肩很宠爱的揉揉你的发,朋友关于你们之间无伤大雅的玩笑让你觉得很甜蜜你说你感觉幸福就在不远的地方.就在你以为一切都将水到渠成的时候睛天霹雳,他说他从没对你有过这种想法他说这是你的误会.你呆住了"误会?那么多人前的亲昵.....竟...竟然是...误会.....?"

伤心吗?难过吗?痛苦吗?只是,只是谁让你把暧昧当爱情呢

这是个暧昧横行的年代,感情出现的第三个种类,比友情深比爱情浅游走于二者的边缘这就是暧昧,是什么时候开始本应是明明朗朗的爱情成了一场麓战,谁先动心谁就满盘皆输万劫不复.是谁把简单复杂化

其实说穿了
暧昧,是可以推脱责任的游戏,没有承诺就无需负责;
暧昧,是勇敢者的游戏,无畏的人才能在角逐中进退自如;
如果你没有铁石铸就的心肠做软胃甲,那么你就别拿暧昧当爱情...

暧昧,是可以推脱责任的游戏,没有承诺就无需负责;

暧昧,是勇敢者的游戏,无畏的人才能在角逐中进退自如;

如果你没有铁石铸就的心肠做软胃甲,那么你就别拿暧昧当爱情...

暧昧是,比好朋友再亲一点,但比情人远一点。

暧昧是,你会常常在QQ等他在线。当他几天没有在线,你就会有些担心。

暧昧是,你会不时去他的BLOG看看有没有更新;而且你会留意字里行间,他对你有没有什么暗示。

暧昧是, 有感觉,然而,这种感觉不足以叫你们切切实实地发展一段正式的关系。

暧昧是, 明白人生有太多的无奈,现实有太多的限制。你知道没有可能,但又舍不得放手。

暧昧是, 有进一步的冲动,却没有进一步的勇气。

暧昧是,他不是你的情人,但似乎他比你的情人更关心你和了解你。

暧昧是,你会编一条围巾给他,但大家从没有开始过。

暧昧是,虽然他不是你的情人,但他却会对你说:你对我是十分重要的。

暧昧是,你感冒时有一个会在晚上打电话来,特意提醒你服药,叫你盖好被子早点睡的普通朋友。

暧昧是,每当他提及他的另一半时,你会万箭穿心。

暧昧是, 为了逃避背叛的罪恶感。

暧昧是, 甜津津又同时酸溜溜的。往往从未开始,已叫人不安,患得患失。

暧昧是,别人以为你们在搞地下情时,你会沾沾自喜。

暧昧是,别人问你们是否恋爱中,你张口结舌。

暧昧是,常常挣扎表不表白。你怕表白之后,你既得不到一个情人,却又失去了一个知心好友。

暧昧是,见到他,你会心跳。见不到他时,你会挂念他。

暧昧是,两个人都会互相猜想。他是不是已经暗示了什么?我是不是自作多情?

暧昧是,每天大家都会聊QQ,会互传手机短讯,无规律地偶然约会。

暧昧是,除了情人节之外,其它的节日,大家都交换礼物。

暧昧是,你很想多走一步,但又怕会吓怕了他。你会很小心流露自己的感情。

暧昧是,两个人没有承诺过什么。但虽然如此,你愿意付出的,比有承诺的情侣更多。没有责任,但你却很渴望去承担,不问回报。

暧昧, 是一扇门,你可以停留在门外,也可以踏进房子里面。然后你不可以停留在门下面。门--永远不是终点站。

我们暧昧,我们却不属于对方...因为暧昧不等于爱情!

2007-07-01

被你点了名了

Q1:如果看到自己最爱的人熟睡在你面前你会做什么

盯着她看吧
Q2:写首自己最最喜爱的歌?
这几天中文歌是 童话 。。好多韩文歌也喜欢
Q3:当你最不知道穿什么颜色的时候,你会选择什么颜色?
黑色
Q4:2006年你最后悔的一件事是什么?
说话不小心,伤害了一个人
Q5:你曾经有过最被感动的事是什么?
妈妈爱我多过爱自己
Q6:比较喜欢爸爸还是妈妈?
妈妈
Q8:最后一次发自内心的笑是什么时候?
今天
Q9:如果给你一个机会去世界上任何一个地方旅行,你会去哪儿?
cuba
Q10:如果时间能倒流你希望回到哪天?
中学5年级
Q11:最想实现的三个愿望是什么?
妈妈身体健康 毕业工作
12:我在你眼里什么样?
好朋友
Q13 如果让你拥有一种超能力,你愿意拥有什么呢?
随时可以隐身让别人看不到
Q14:最喜欢哪部电影?
很难决定
Q15:与喜欢的人见面,想要穿成什么样子
普通穿。。
Q16:最喜欢的食物?
麻辣 火锅 柿子 排骨
Q17:如何向喜欢的人表白?
暗示
Q18:如果你爱的人不爱你怎麽辦?
尊重她的选择
Q19:你会选择having *** before marriage吗?

Q20:世界末日,你会幸存,并且你可以救一个人,你会救谁?
有救的人
Q21:你在乎别人看你的眼光吗?会为了众人的反对放弃自己想要的东西或人吗?
在乎吧,看那是些什么样人
Q22:想要拥有一个怎样的圣诞?
有爱的白色圣诞
Q23:如果我们不认识...你还想和我做朋友么?
Definitely
Q24:对我的第一印象和现在的感觉?
很热情,很可爱,
Q25:你的他(她)迟到多久你会等?
as long as it takes
Q26:怎么才算真正爱一个人?
爱人如己
Q27:在什么时候会想到我?
看到天的时候。。哈哈 pun intended
Q28:2007年最想干什么?
毕业
Q29:做人是为了什么啊?
为神,为人,为己
Q30:如果有天你死了,希望是什么死法?
自然死
Q31:朋友到底是怎样的?
be there for each other.
Q32:如何拒绝追求你的人?
直接说清楚
Q33:最想做什么动物?

Q34:你和你现在的女(男)朋友在路上碰到你以前的女(男)朋友,你会怎么办?
笑一笑
Q35:觉得一直和一个人呆在一起会有一天厌倦吗?(朋友或恋人)
看人咯
Q36:郁闷的时候怎么办?
睡觉,上网看喂鸡百科
Q37:最适合你发呆的地方?
on top of one tree hill
Q38:做过最开心的梦是?
和喜欢的人在一起

Q39:第一本看的言情小说?
。。。
Q40:如果有一天,傷害了自己心愛的人,會怎麽辦?
道歉,请客冰淇淋
Q41:如果有一天,我們不再是朋友了你還會記得我吗?
。。。我记忆很好的。除非逼自己忘记你
Q42:愛妳的人和妳愛的人會選哪個?
如果这两个是一个人的话。。多好。天下太平。
Q43:你喜欢和什么样的人聊天
有感觉,有共同话题的人
Q44:最热衷的事
太多了。。
Q45:你会和前男(女)友旧情复燃吗?
看情况
Q46:最喜欢哪个季节?
秋天
Q47:觉得一个人要怎样才算活得坚强?
读一读 mcarthur's prayer for his son。。这就是我的答复
Q48:最害怕什么?
没方向
Q49:我的哪个缺点你最讨厌?
太容易被我把你搞“晕“
Q50:如果你和你的BF(GF)现在分隔两地,你觉得自己有毅力等下去吗
。。。??!
Q51:你最憧憬的浪漫场景是什么?
哈哈。。有她的地方就很浪漫
Q52:打算多大结婚生子呢?
没想过
Q53:自由和快乐.请选择一个
两者不是一体的吗?无法选择
Q54:你是追求快乐呢还是等待快乐?
追求
Q54:在下雨天喜欢穿白色的人是一个什么样的人 ?
不在乎衣服脏的人
Q55:生活中会遇到很多挫折,说说看自己怎样渡过难关?
顺其自然
Q58:喜欢什么时候的大海?早晨,中午,下午,傍晚,深夜?
都喜欢
Q59:在你心目中,遇到过最善良的人是谁?
morgan...佛教徒同学
Q60:如果你信任的人做了对不起你的事你会怎样?
既然是信任的人,那么他一定有原因的,所以原谅他
Q61:你和你爱的他或者她,你希望谁先死?
看天意
Q62:觉得我应该找一个什么样的女人(男人)结婚!看清楚是结婚,不是恋爱!!!
我的条件很长。。
Q63:过年的时候应该到男方家过年还是去女方家?
真累,双方聚在一起过年多好啊
Q64:你喜欢的男生让你叫他哥(你喜欢的女生认你做哥) 你会同意吗?
。。。恩
Q65:做完题后,你累不?
说不累是骗人
Q66:你觉的一个女人作为第3者是否很可耻?
不会
Q67:怎样会被感动?
通过细节
Q68:一份礼物已经送你了却说在几月几号(很久)前不能开启,你的好奇心会驱使你怎么做?
我觉得我应该坚持的住
Q69:如果都能活的很好,想要特别童真还是特别成熟??
成熟
Q70:现在,你对自己曾经真心付出最真的一段爱情持一个什么样的想法?
如果真心付出,就不后悔
Q71:有刻意地伤害过别人吗?不要说没有,好好想想。

Q72:觉得自己幸福吗?
知足/会数算恩典,就幸福了
Q73:写出你现阶段最喜欢的5个男人(女人)的名字
妈妈,姐姐,阿姨,阿姨,外婆,她
Q74:你认为活着是为了什么?为什么活着?
这题目好像重复了,拒绝回答
Q75:你不开心的时候会告诉别人你的难过吗?
大多数时候不会
Q76:你爱的人不能给你明确的答案,你会怎么做?
耐心等待
Q77:为啥女生老是喜欢问“你爱不爱我?”呢?
试试看你是不是真的??
Q78:在你的生命中不可缺少的五要素是什么?
上帝 家人 健康 自由 智慧
Q79:大学的生活怎样过才是最让自己满足和开心的?现阶段的你快乐么?
知足,快乐是一种感觉,数算恩典自然快乐。
Q80:上大学的意义是什么?
长辈说方便找工作